godflex:

– Biggest Tip: Don’t expect to get them off just by fucking them. Most people cannot get off just with penetration! Think about your last position being something where you can easily give them a hand (them on their back under you for example), or getting a wand/long vibrating toy you can easily hold against them while still hammering away happily.

 – think about how long your legs/thighs are vs theirs and plan accordingly (its Really strenuous to thrust into a pair of hips set slightly higher than yours while also keeping your dick in there! Finding a table or bed or similar surface that lines up with your hips is always a fun solution)

– When you’re in bed and a position just isn’t working for you because of the angle (you keep slipping out, its too strenuous on your legs because of how you need to hold yourself, ect) – Try jamming a pillow or two under their hips! So much of fucking is just hip placement honestly.

– Uuuuh your feet slipping on sheets when you’re going for it and messing up your rhythm is real! I dont have a solution for that yet, its just a thing. I guess aim for sheets that are better for gripping lmfao

– Depending on your surface of choice, make note every now and then of how you might’ve moved and if they’re close to falling off/colliding with anything. Gives you a chance to be a big strong top and drag them back into place. (most bottoms Love to be safely manhandled out of the blue like this.)

– Get Ready For Ab Pain (or if u wanna get real good at it, work on your core!)

– Think about angles! Especially angles that are hitting their front walls if you’re fucking someone afab, or their back walls if you’re fucking someone amab. you wanna hit those Sweet G/P Spots. (That’s why fucking someone afab in the Prone Bone position (them lying flat on their front with you fucking down into them) is like Really Good, while doggy style is really good for an amab person, especially if you’ve got a cock that bends upwards.)

– Talk about dick firmness with them. Some people will not be able to take a dick thats too hard. Some won’t get anything out of a dick thats too soft. (The best dicks are dual density – when it has a harder core and then a layer of softer silicone around that core. Usually more expensive, but worth it.)

– Get good at telling when you’ve slipped out of them by the types of pulling/pressure that happen when you’re fucking them successfully. At first you won’t be able to tell when you’ve slipped out and they’ll hopefully inform you of that, but being able to tell when you have just by how it feels against you will help you make that Re-entry smoother. And also means you can do more intentionally pulling out to tease them a lot more smoothly

– kind of related; if you’ve got a belly or are in any kinda position where you can’t watch as you’re fucking them, you’re not gonna be able to Pull Out Right To The Tip fuck them easily at first. You will likely misjudge how long that dick is and just slip out. So ! i suggest practicing that by getting in a position where you can see what you’re doing and taking note of the distance that is appropriate to that dick. Also just helps with general fucking to avoid slipping out too much.

thats p much all i can think of atm, ppl far more experienced than me please feel free to add more