I just wanna say that the word “teratophilia” makes me slightly uncomfortable as the actual definition means attraction to monstrous humans, as “xenophilia” refers to strangers and foreigners,
but i discovered that “Exophilia” definitely fits more with our community and im confused as to why nobody uses it 🙂 it literally refers to attraction to robots, aliens and supernatural other-worldly beings! I just felt like i should share this with all of you and I’m definitely going to start using that over the other words 🙂I love it! 💗💕💗💕💗💕💗
@howtobangyourmonster you were looking for a new word, weren’t you?
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If you don’t mind me asking, no pressure to answer, how come you don’t like the teratophilia tag? It appears very similar to the xenophilia tag
it has some really unfortunate implications I’d prefer not to be associated with my art.
both “teratophilia” and “xenophilia” have meanings outside of the internet monsterfuckers’ use of the terms – but while “xenophilia” is simply a paraphilia for ‘having sex with strangers’ (and online, can often also be used specifically to talk about people who wanna fuck the Aliens aliens), “teratophilia” is a paraphilia involving objectifying people who are disabled and/or have medical deformities.
”xenophilia” as in stranger-fuckin’ is a bit of a difficult thing to depict outside of stories (ie written text or comics/sequential art) so I suppose this is part of why it has relatively little imagery – vs amputee porn and the like is, um, a pretty big Thing, and “teratophilia” absolutely brings up that sort of imagery.
it’s also a contextual thing: “xeno-” simply means strange or different. “terato-” means “monstrous”, yes, specifically in the context of monstrous, horrifying, deformed. this is why “teratophilia” is related to a kink fetishising amputees & the like, and why things like those tumours that grow teeth & hair are called teratomas, etc.
I like my horrifying monsters framed in a context where their partner(s) find them attractive and not actually horrifying.
not to mention “xenophilia” has served us monster/alienfuckers perfectly well online for the last 20 years.
¯_(ツ)_/¯
EDIT oct.30/2018: @the-tasteful-beast has suggested “exophilia” as an alternate word with a similar intended meaning to xeno- or teratophilia but without the alternate meaning of “xenophilia,” or the ableist baggage of “teratophilia.”